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What I've been up to....

by milktoast67 @ Wednesday, Oct. 11, 2006 - 21:28:21

What have I been up to lately.....well, there's the usual, taking care of my now 5.5 month old (a true pleasure!) spending time with my wonderful husband (and taking care of him as well, also a pleasure!) and making sure that our house is in order (not as much of a "pleasure".) All in all, it keeps me very very busy.

Once a week, Kira and I go to meet other new mother's in the neighborhood. We all met months ago when the babies were just newly born. The council arranges these groups and you start out meeting at the maternal healthcare center. They talked to us about raising our bubs and how to take care of ourselves. Then were were left to continue the group. Most people have stayed on, a couple have gone back to work but its good, everyone seems to make an effort to come to these weekly get togethers. I've even met some of the mum's outside of the group meetings for coffee and to go for walks.

The one thing that I've learned about new mums is this, they are all pretty competitive.....who knows, maybe I am as well. It seems like whenever you start to talk about how your child is doing the other mother tends to make it seem that their baby is "perfect" or that they are developing so amazingly well! I crave to hear that they have rough moments where their child cries endlessly or that its not all perfect in the household, there are hard times as well. I don't know, it just sometimes seems strange that they go on this way....isn't the whole idea of mother's group to share honest/common experiences?

Our little lady has also started going to Gymbaroo. Its a 45 minute exercise class for babies! We've only gone to one class.....she did pretty well. Really seemed to enjoy the first bit but was a little tired and out of sorts towards the end of it. We'll see....I think that its good for their development....

All in all its good. We leave for our first plane trip together to NYC. A 24 hr trip.....Luckily we're all flying together as a family. I'm hoping that we arrive safe and sound....

until we come back...xxxx

K10_8a


 
 

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caroline93caroline93 [Member]
12/10/06 @ 03:03

She is absolutely beautiful and my mothers group in the last month has dropped all that competitive edge and now we are all actually supporting each other by talking about tough times and sharing knowledge. I dont know why it didnt happen from the start, maybe because of all the pressure new mums feel to be perfect, i know i still do
safe on your travels xx

phinebooty [Visitor]

26/11/06 @ 05:40

ooh, she looks so pretty!! I think new mothers sometimes don't admit the downside(baby crying all the time) because they think they'll be judged or people will think they are bad mothers. glad to see you see the experience for what it is;)

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25/05/07 @ 06:24

You said: I crave to hear that they have rough moments where their child cries endlessly or that its not all perfect in the household, there are hard times as well. I don't know, it just sometimes seems strange that they go on this way....isn't the whole idea of mother's group to share honest/common experiences?

Yes, we do but we don't talk about it!
You're very welcome to visit my blog, it's so relevant to what you wrote.

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